What is Sexual Consent?
Sexual consent is:
- A voluntary, enthusiastic, and clear agreement between 2 or more parties
- A continuous process involving ongoing communication and respect for boundaries
- Important in sex work to establish trust, safety, and integrity
- A negotiation of boundaries, discussions of expectations, and obtaining affirmative consent
- Prioritizing the comfort, autonomy, and well-being of all parties involved
Consent is the bedrock of healthy sexual encounters, and in the realm of sex work, its significance cannot be overstated. At its core, sexual consent is the voluntary, enthusiastic and clear agreement to engage in sexual activity. It is a continuous process that involves ongoing communication, respect for boundaries, and mutual understanding between all parties involved.
In the context of sex work, sexual consent takes on added layers of complexity and importance. It serves as a guiding principle that ensures all interactions are conducted with respect, dignity, and integrity. By explicitly negotiating boundaries, discussing expectations, and obtaining affirmative consent, sex workers and clients create a foundation of trust and safety within their exchanges.
Sexual consent is not just about saying “yes” or “no”; it is about actively listening, respecting autonomy, and always prioritizing the comfort and well-being of everyone involved. It empowers individuals to make informed decisions about their bodies and their boundaries, fostering a culture of respect and agency within the sex work community.
Keeping in mind that consent is fluid, it can be given and taken away in a moment and this should always be treated with respect. Please do not beg and plead with a providers should they chose to remove the consent that they may have offered at a different point in your engagement. Best to show respect and discuss why consent was removed at the end of your appointment.
By understanding and upholding the principles of sexual consent, sex workers and clients alike can navigate their interactions with confidence, clarity, and mutual respect. It is a shared responsibility to ensure that all encounters are consensual, ethical, and empowering for everyone involved.
In essence, sexual consent is the cornerstone of ethical sex work. It is a profound declaration of respect for individual autonomy, a commitment to open communication, and a recognition of the inherent dignity and agency of all parties. By embracing the essence of sexual consent, we pave the way for a more equitable, safe, and empowering future within the world of sex work.
On that note….
Please respect boundaries and the process of consent. Failure to do so may lead to you finding yourself blacklisted from booking with Vogue Collective.
Please do not request an exchange of personal information with the ladies of Vogue Collective. Understand that by booking through an agency you are consenting to a safe and discrete experience for yourself and our providers.
By working through our collective our providers expect the same discretion and respect for their personal lives as you do. Unfortunately this is something that they bring up with us on a regular basis, so we have committed to helping eradicate this client behavior at their request.
We will offer clients requesting an exchange of personal information one verbal warning from our management team. Should it become an issue again, you may be blacklisted from booking with Vogue Collective.
